Welcome to The Self-Worth Code

Inspired by the transformative principles outlined in our foundational book, The Self-Worth Code is more than just a programme—it’s a powerful concept designed to help individuals  reconnect with their true value and prioritise their well-being.

At this stage in life, many face transitions that challenge their sense of self, but with our personalised approach, we provide the tools and guidance needed to achieve lasting inner transformation. Our proven framework helps you redefine your worth, embrace self-care, and cultivate a meaningful life rooted in self-respect and fulfilment.

The Self-Worth Code empowers you to:

  • Rediscover your purpose and passion.
  • Prioritise emotional, mental, and physical well-being.
  • Break free from limiting beliefs and societal expectations.
  • Experience lasting personal growth and fulfilment.

Our unique approach combines insights from the book with individualised support, ensuring you not only understand the principles but integrate them into your everyday life for sustained change.

Embrace your worth. Transform your future. Live by the Code.

“Clifton Holmes: 39 years of journaling experience turned into a 100-day journey to self-awareness, consistency, and growth—anyone can join, regardless of background.”

Contact us

Reach out to us today to start your journey towards self-worth and well-being.

Creating a New Identity:

Here’s a basic process:

  1. Define Who You Want to Be: What values, behaviours, and mindset does this version of you hold?

  2. Act Like That Person: Start aligning your actions with that identity—even in small ways.

  3. Repeat and Reinforce: Identity forms through repeated action. Every time you act like this person, you're casting a vote for that identity.

  4. Reflect Often: Journaling, especially a 100-day challenge, can help reinforce and track this transformation.

Unlock the Spiritual Lock to Your Self-Worth
Monday@6PM Online School

A 10-Week Online Journey to Rediscover Your Inner Value

Course Overview:
Join us for a powerful online programme designed to help you reconnect with your true worth, guided by spiritual insight and personal reflection.

What You’ll Receive:

🌿 Live Weekly Classes – Connect and learn in real time with experienced spiritual mentors
📚 Guided Curriculum – Explore themes like identity, self-worth, inner healing, and spiritual awakening
🌀 Reflection Practices – Tools, journaling prompts, and meditations for deep personal growth
🤝 Supportive Online Community – Journey alongside others who are ready to evolve

Why This Course Matters:
So many of us seek our worth in the wrong places. This course is your opportunity to go inward, spiritually and practically, and find the key you've been missing—the key to your Self-Worth.

📅 2026 Workshop/Keynotes Request Dates

Venues to be agreed | All sessions 9am–3pm

  1. Monday, 16 February 2026

  2. Friday, 27 February 2026

  3. Monday, 16 March 2026

  4. Friday, 27 March 2026

  5. Monday, 13 April 2026

  6. Friday, 24 April 2026

  7. Monday, 12 May 2026

Note

Venues and final locations will be released directly to confirmed attendees.

For booking, availability, and full workshop details please see the Contact Us page or email:

📩 theselfworthcode@gmail.com

Keynote Bookings Now Open

Not myth-making.
Not redemption narrative.
Not mindset theatre.

A 39-year, lived, documented experiment in:

  • self-worth under pressure

  • collapse without shame

  • rebuilding without spectacle

Not a comeback story — a psychological reconstruction model.

🎤 Core Thesis

Self-worth is the primary infrastructure of a life.

Before wealth, before performance, before validation:
Health → Time → Money

Everything else is downstream of internal value calibration.

🌿 What Audiences Leave With

  • Collapse interpreted as usable data

  • Discipline without self-erasure

  • Ambition without moral outsourcing

  • Identity rebuilt without theatrics

This is not motivation.
It is post-collapse architecture.

🏛 Speaking Style

Quiet power.
Clinical clarity.
Zero shame economy.

No selling of hope.
No moral melodrama.
Just the method — and the evidence.

📞 Booking

Limited engagements. Corporate + private only.

Request via email theselfworthcode@gmail.com

For audiences who no longer believe in gurus, manifestos, or performance redemption —
this is the sober alternative.

"100 Days to Authenticity:

Conquer Validation Addiction & Reclaim Your Worth!"

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100 Days to Authenticity: Your Daily Path to Inner Alignment

Commit to 100 days of intentional self-discovery with our guided journal experience. Each day offers a powerful prompt to help you reflect, release old patterns, and realign with your authentic self. This daily practice is a cornerstone of The Self-Worth Code—encouraging you to build inner strength, emotional clarity, and a deeper sense of self-worth one day at a time.

 

Frequently Asked Questions

How can The Self Worth Code help me improve my self-worth?

What is Inner Coherence, and why is it important?

Inner Coherence refers to a state of harmony and alignment between your thoughts, emotions, actions, and values. It’s when you feel at peace with who you are, confident in your decisions, and in control of your emotional well-being. Achieving Inner Coherence means you can live authentically, free from the pressure of external validation.

It is important because when you're not in tune with your inner self, you may feel lost, disconnected, or overwhelmed. Inner Coherence helps restore balance and empowers you to act from a place of clarity and self-assurance.

How does The Self-Worth Code help me develop Inner Coherence?

The Self-Worth Code supports your journey toward Inner Coherence through a series of well-designed programmes and practices that promote self-discovery, mindfulness, and authenticity. Here's how it helps, step by step:

Step 1: Awareness

The Self-Worth Code begins by helping you identify where you might be out of sync with yourself. Through journaling exercises, reflective prompts, and daily mindfulness practices, you'll gain clarity on your thoughts, feelings, and actions.

You’ll uncover patterns of external validation addiction, so you can start recognizing when and why you rely on others’ opinions to define your worth.

Step 2: Acceptance

The next step is about embracing who you truly are. You’ll learn to let go of perfectionism and self-judgment, instead accepting yourself with all your flaws and strengths. This is key to developing self-compassion, which is a cornerstone of Inner Coherence.

Workshops and group coaching sessions provide a safe space to explore your identity without fear of judgment.

Step 3: Alignment

Once you’ve developed awareness and acceptance, the programme helps you align your actions with your core values and desires. The Self-Worth Code provides specific tools like mindfulness exercises, fitness routines, and wellness plans that fit into your life, supporting you to make choices that resonate with your authentic self.

You’ll also learn how to set boundaries and cultivate healthy relationships that encourage personal growth and well-being.

Step 4: Action

The final step is about living in coherence with your true self. As you integrate the teachings into your daily life, you’ll begin to make decisions from a place of confidence and inner peace, rather than seeking approval from others.

The 100 Days to Authenticity Journal and ongoing support through workshops and community connections provide continuous guidance as you build habits that foster Inner Coherence.

How long does it take to achieve Inner Coherence through The Self-Worth Code?

Inner Coherence is a gradual process. For some, it can take a few weeks to start noticing small shifts in their thoughts and feelings, while for others, it may take several months. The key is consistency. By engaging in the programme and committing to daily practices, you will begin to see more alignment and peace in your life over time.

Will I need any special skills or experience to benefit from The Self-Worth Code?

No special skills or prior experience are required. The Self-Worth Code is designed to meet you where you are, guiding you through each step with accessible exercises and supportive resources. Whether you're just starting your personal growth journey or you're further along, you’ll find value in the programme's offerings.

What if I feel stuck or overwhelmed during the process?

It's completely normal to feel challenged at times. Developing Inner Coherence takes time and patience. Our community and ongoing support ensure that you are never alone in your journey. You’ll have access to one-on-one coaching, group workshops, and a supportive community to help you work through any obstacles you may encounter.

How can I get started with The Self-Worth Code?

Getting started is simple! You can reach out to us via email or fill out the contact form on our website. Once you’ve enrolled, you’ll receive everything you need to begin your journey towards Inner Coherence, including access to our guided practices, journals, and exclusive workshops.

What sets the Author apart from other wellness consultants?

The Author specializes in post relationship  support and guidance for those seeking to prioritize their self-worth and well-being.

What should I expect during a Monday 6pm Storytelling Session?

During Classroom Session, you can expect a deeper dive Virtual class at 6pm  for guided practices that promote a deeper sense of connection via the book and with other meaningfully connected people updating their journal

About us

At theselfworthcode, we are dedicated to helping individuals  unlock their self-worth and prioritize their well-being. With a focus on personalized guidance and holistic practices, we empower our clients to live authentically and confidently.